A TRUE STORY WITH A HAPPY ENDING ... AND A GIFT.
This is a true story that occurred in 1994 and told by Lloyd Glenn.
On July 22nd I was en route to Washington DC for a business trip. It was all so very ordinary, until we landed in Denver for a plane change.
As I collected my belongings from the overhead bin, an announcement
was made for Mr. Lloyd Glenn to see the United Customer Service Representative
immediately. I thought nothing of it until I reached the door
to leave the plane and I heard a gentleman asking every male if they
were Mr. Glenn. At this point I knew something was wrong and
my heart sunk. When I got off the plane a solemn-faced
young man came toward me and said, "Mr. Glenn there is an emergency at
your home. I do not know what the emergency is, or who is involved,
but I will take you to the phone so you can call the hospital.
My heart was now pounding, but the will to be calm took over.
Woodenly, I followed this stranger to the distant telephone where
I called the number he gave me for the Mission Hospital.
My call was put through to the trauma center where I learned that
my three-year-old son had been trapped underneath the automatic garage
door for several minutes, and that when my wife had found him he
was dead. CPR had
been performed by a neighbor, who is a doctor, and the
paramedics had continued the treatment as Brian was transported
to the hospital. By the time of my call,
Brian was revived and they believed he would live, but they
did not know how much damage had been done to his brain, nor to his
heart. They explained that the door had completely closed on his
little sternum right over his heart. He had been severely crushed.
After speaking with the medical staff, my wife sounded worried
but not hysterical, and I took comfort in her calmness. The
return flight seemed to last forever, but finally I arrived at the
hospital six hours after the garage door had come down. When I walked
into the
intensive care unit, nothing could have prepared me to see my
little son laying so still on a great big bed with tubes and
monitors everywhere.
He was on a respirator. I glanced at my wife who stood and
tried to give me a reassuring smile. It all seemed like
a terrible dream. I was filled in with the details and given
a guarded prognosis. Brian was going to live, and the
preliminary tests indicated that his heart was ok-two miracles, in
and of themselves. But only time would tell
if his brain received any damage.
Throughout the seemingly endless hours, my wife was calm.
She felt that Brian would eventually be all right. I hung on
to her words and faith like a lifeline. All that night and
the next day Brian remained unconscious. It seemed like forever since
I had left for my business trip the day before. Finally at two o'clock
that afternoon, our son regained consciousness and sat up uttering
the most beautiful words I have ever heard spoken, He said,
"Daddy hold me," and he reached for me with his little arms.
By the next day he was pronounced as having no neurological or physical deficits, and the story of his miraculous survival spread throughout the hospital. You cannot imagine our gratitude and joy.
As we took Brian home we felt a unique reverence for the life and love of our Heavenly Father that comes to those who brush death so closely.
In the days that followed there was a special spirit about our
home. Our two older children were much closer to their little
brother. My wife and I were much closer to each other, and
all of us were very close as a whole family. Life took on a less
stressful pace.
Perspective seemed to be more focused, and balance much easier
to gain and maintain. We felt deeply blessed. Our gratitude
was truly profound.
Almost a month later to the day of the accident, Brian awoke from
his afternoon nap and said, "Sit down mommy. I have something to
tell you." At this time in his life, Brian usually spoke
in small phrases, so to say large sentence surprised my wife.
She sat down
with him on his bed and he began his sacred and remarkable
story.
"Do you remember when I got stuck under the garage door?
Well it was so heavy and it hurt really bad. I called to you,
but you couldn't hear me. I started to cry, but then it hurt too
bad. And then the "birdies" came "The birdies?" my wife asked
puzzled. "Yes," he
replied. "The birdies" made a whooshing sound and
flew into the garage.
They took care of me." "They did?" "Yes, he said." "One
of the "birdies" came and got you. She came to tell you I got stuck under
the door." A sweet reverent feeling filled the room. The spirit
was so strong and yet lighter than air. My wife realized
that a three
year-old had no concept of death and spirits, so he was referring
to the beings who came to him from beyond as "birdies" because they
were up in the air like birds that fly. "What did the
birdies look like?" she asked.
Brian answered. "They were so beautiful. They were dressed in white all white. Some of them had green and white. But some of them had on just white."
"Did they say anything?" "Yes" he answered. They told me the baby would be alright." "The baby?" my wife asked confused. And Brian answered. "The baby laying on the garage floor." He went on, "You came out and opened the garage door and ran to the baby. You told the baby to stay and not leave."
My wife nearly collapsed upon hearing this, for she had indeed gone and knelt beside Brian's body and seeing his crushed chest and unrecognizable features, knowing he was already dead, she looked up around her and whispered, "Don't leave us Brian, please stay if you can.
As she listened to Brian telling her the words she had spoken, she realized that the spirit had left his body and was looking down from above on this little lifeless form. "Then what happened?" she asked.
"We went on a trip." he said, "far, far away.." He grew agitated trying to say the things he didn't seem to have the words for. My wife tried to calm and comfort him, and let him know it would be okay. He struggled with wanting to tell something that obviously was very important to him, but finding the words was difficult.
"We flew so fast up in the air." "They're so pretty Mommy."
he added. "And there is lots and lots of "birdies". My wife
was stunned. Into her mind the sweet comforting spirit enveloped
her more soundly, but with an urgency she had never before
known.
Brian went on to tell her that the 'birdies' had told him that
he had to come back and tell everyone about the "birdies". He said
they brought him back to the house and that a big fire truck, and
an ambulance were there. A man was bringing the baby out on a white
bed and he tried to tell the man the baby would be okay, but the man
couldn't hear him. He said, "birdies told him he had to go with the
ambulance, but they would be near him. He said, they were so pretty and
so peaceful, and he didn't want to come back. And then the bright
light came. He said that the light was so bright and so warm, and
he loved the bright light so much. Someone was in the bright
light and put their arms around him, and told him, "I love
you but you have to go back. You have to play baseball,
and tell everyone about the birdies." Then the person in the
bright light kissed him and waved bye-bye. Then whoosh, the big
sound came and they went into the clouds."
The story went on for an hour. He taught us that "birdies" were
always with us, but we don't see them because we look with our eyes
and we don't hear them because we listen with our ears. But they are always
there, you can only see them in here (he put his hand over
his heart). They whisper the things to help us to do what is right
because they love us so much. Brian continued, stating, "I have a
plan, Mommy. You have a plan. Daddy has a plan. Everyone has
a plan. We must all live our plan and keep our promises.
The "birdies help us to do that cause they love us so much."
In the weeks that followed, he often came to us and told all, or
part of it again and again. Always the story remained
the same. The details were never changed or out of order.
A few times he added further bits of information and clarified the
message he had already delivered. It never ceased to amaze
us how he could tell such detail and speak beyond his ability when
he spoke of his "birdies."
Everywhere he went, he told strangers about the "birdies".
Surprisingly, no one ever looked at him strangely when he did
this.
Rather, they always get a softened look on their face and smiled.
Needless to say, we have not been the same ever since that day,
and I pray we never will be.