Life isn't about keeping score.  It's not about how many friends you have. Or how accepted you are.  Not about if you have plans this weekend or if you're alone.  It isn't about who you're dating, who you used to date, how many people you've dated, or if you haven't been with anyone at all.  It isn't about who you have kissed, it's not about sex.  It isn't about who your family is or how much money they have or what kind of car you drive.  Or where you are sent to school.  It's not about how beautiful or ugly you are. Or what clothes you wear, what shoes you have on, or what kind of music you listen to.  It's not about if your hair is blonde, red, black, or brown.  Or if your skin is too light or too dark.  Not about what grades you get, how smart you are, how smart everybody else thinks you are, or how smart standardised tests say you are.  It's not about representing your whole being on a piece of paper and seeing who will accept the written you.
 

Everyone longs to give themselves completely to someone - to have a deep soul relationship with another - to be loved thoroughly and exclusively.

But GOD says to a Christian, no, not until you are satisfied, fulfilled, and content with being loved by me alone - with giving yourself totally and unreservedly to me - with having
an intensely personal relationship with me alone - discovering that only in me is your satisfaction to be found - will you be capable of the perfect human relationship I have
planned for you.

You will never be united with another until you are united with me - exclusively of anyone or anything else, exclusively of any other desires or longings, I want you to stop planning, stop wishing, and allow me to bring it to you.

You just keep watching me, expecting the greatest things - keep experiencing the satisfaction that I am. Keep listening and learning the things I tell you.  You just wait.  That's all.

Don't be anxious. Don't worry.  Don't look around at the things others have gotten or that I have given them.  Don't look at the things you think you want.  You just keep looking up to me, or you'll miss what I want to show you.  And then, when you're ready, I'll surprise you with a love far more wonderful than any you would dream of having.

You see, until you are ready and until the one I have for you is ready, (I am working even at this moment to have both of you ready at the same time.)  Until you are both satisfied
exclusively with me, and the life I have prepared for you, you won't be able to experience the love that exemplifies your relationship with me and thus the dearest love.

And dear one, I want you to have this most wonderful love.  I want you to see in the flesh a picture of your relationship with me.  And enjoy maturely and concretely the everlasting
union of beauty, perfection, and love.  Know that I love you completely.  I am GOD.  Believe it and be satisfied.